US Catholic Faith in Real Life

Let's watch our language about gays and lesbians

By Father Richard Prendergast | Print this pagePrint | Email this pageShare
Official statements calling gays and lesbians "disordered" and "violent" do little to make them feel welcomed and respected in the church. A pastor argues that it's time to stop the name-calling and start treating gays and lesbians as brothers and sisters in Christ.

I met Laura and Lynne at a party given by A mutual friend. It was there that I learned they were awaiting word from halfway around the world about a baby available for adoption. A few months later, the two women brought home their new daughter, Chloe.

Thoughts from a gay teacher in a Catholic school

By Ann Wells | Print this pagePrint | Email this pageShare
A junior high teacher yearns to be a positive gay role model in her Catholic school. But she wonders, "Does the church love me as much as I love it?"

I am stuck. I am thinking about my lesson plans for tomorrow's junior high religion class. We have been covering the church's position on controversial topics, and so far it has gone well. But the knots in my stomach tell me how I feel about tomorrow's topic. It is about homosexuality. I don't know what to tell the students.

You see, I am gay, and I am a Catholic school teacher.

One gay priest's story

By Father Raymond Calabrese | Print this pagePrint | Email this pageShare
Defying the current scapegoating and stereotypes, a priest shares his journey and struggle.

My Roman collar caused Mrs. H to hesitate. She knew I was gay, but she also recalled a sermon in which her pastor had said that unless gays repented, they had no place in the church, let alone heaven. She had looked for a priest who would understand that her gay son was dying of AIDS. There was no one in her community to confide in, least of all the parish priest.

What I learned from Father Dan: Let's not scapegoat gay priests

By Margaret Brennan | Print this pagePrint | Email this pageShare
Many gay priests have served and continue to serve our church well. Let's not make them scapegoats for the sins of others.

In our church and in the media there has been much talk about the recently released Vatican instruction on vocation discernment and gay seminarians. As a middle-aged, married woman and the mother of two teenage children who has worked for most of her professional life in ministry, why should I care to add to that debate? Shouldn't I just leave the commenting to a gay priest or seminarian?

Pride and prejudice: The uneasy relationship between gays and lesbians and their church

By Kristen Hannum | Print this pagePrint | Email this pageShare
As church leaders turn up the volume on same-sex marriage, gay and lesbian Catholics find themselves wondering just where they stand in their church.

On a clear, windy Sunday in March 2010, Father William Breslin told his parishioners at Sacred Heart of Jesus in Boulder, Colorado why the parish school would not re-enroll a child of same-sex parents for the coming school year.

The mamas and the papas: What it's like for Catholic parents of GLBT children

By Kristen Hannum | Print this pagePrint | Email this pageShare
Parents have much to say about the church and their children.

The young priest preached on the sanctity of life at a Denver hospice. Afterward an older couple asked him if their son, who had died of AIDS, would be in hell forever. The priest said he couldn’t answer that.

More than 20 years later Shawn Reynolds still remembers the anguish on the couple’s faces. “He didn’t say anything about Christ’s love,” Reynolds says.

Off the corporate ladder: Working for the church

By Leslie Scanlon | Print this pagePrint | Email this pageShare
Some professionals are quitting their day jobs and stepping up to a new spiritual calling.

if someone had told Barbara Evans a decade ago that she’d be working as the director of religious education for a parish in New Jersey, responsible for the faith formation of children and teenagers, she’d have told them they were crazy.

Degrees of service: More on lay ministry programs

By Leslie Scanlon | Print this pagePrint | Email this pageShare
What types of lay ministry formation programs are available?

The answer varies—from shorter-term diocesan programs that might involve a class taken at night or on Saturdays for a month or two to formal university graduate school programs lasting several years.

Not in it for the money: Why some Catholics jump off the corporate ladder and into church ministry

By Leslie Scanlon | Print this pagePrint | Email this pageShare
Those who enter lay ecclesial formation programs do so for a variety of reasons, but not usually because they expect to find a job with a whopping paycheck at the end.

“Financially – if it were a pure financial decision, it would not make a lot of sense” to go to graduate school for such work, said Marti Jewell, an assistant professor of theology at the University of Dallas, who has studied the development of lay formation programs.

Bring remarried Catholics back to the table

By Father Paul M. Zulehner | Print this pagePrint | Email this pageShare

Editors’ note: Sounding Board is one person’s take on a many-sided subject and does not necessarily reflect the opinions of U.S. Catholic, its editors, or the Claretians.