New year, new you: Spiritual resolutions
Stretch your soul in ten minutes a day
It’s a new year, and time to get cracking on those resolutions. In addition to those vows to exercise regularly, eat better, save money, get organized, and call Mom more often, make room on your list for one more improvement: spiritual growth.
We know what you’re thinking: This year, you’ll start every day by attending Mass or saying the rosary, or participating in Morning Prayer. Or maybe you just want to get to Confession or adoration more often. Or you think you’re finally ready to take that eight-day retreat. Whoa—not so fast! Some of you (those who quit smoking cold turkey thanks to a previous New Year’s resolution) might manage to make good on those goals, but the rest of us would be wise to take some spiritual baby steps.
Instead of resolving to become a mystic by December only to abandon your promise before March, take a look at our 2009 spiritual fitness guide, a list of practices that will stretch your soul in less than 10 minutes a day. We promise that if you adopt any one of them, you’ll be in better spiritual shape at the end of this year than you were at the beginning.
BIG GOAL
Daily Mass
Daily Mass seems to perfectly meet our recommended daily allowance of the spiritual good stuff: readings and prayers, homily, the Eucharist. But it’s not always possible to fit it in between the demands of daily life, and sometimes it’s just not an option for those who lack good health or transportation.
FIRST, TRY
Daily scripture readings
Two of our favorite daily scripture resources are Bible Diary and Daily Gospel (both from Claretian Publications). The 2009 Daily Gospel is a compact volume that includes each day’s gospel reading, a short reflection, plus the first reading citation. These are also available online at bible.claret.org/resources.html.
The U.S. bishops’ website, usccb.org/nab, offers podcasts of the daily Mass readings, and dailygospel.org e-mails you the gospel reading each morning. Also worth a visit is sacredspace.ie, a website run by the Irish Jesuits that guides you through the daily gospel reading with some additional material.
The Bible Diary offers some practical pointers for how best to encounter and pray with the daily readings: “Write down your reflections and realizations, your resolutions, little dialogues with yourself. . . . When you look back and read them all over, you will begin to see and discover more about yourself.”
OR TRY
Lectio divina
Take a cue from the monastics, and try lectio divina (Latin for “sacred reading”), their time-tested way to engage scripture. While any part of scripture is fair game, people often focus on one of the daily readings.
“In lectio we read slowly, attentively, gently listening to hear a word or phrase that is God’s word for us this day,” writes Father Luke Dysinger, O.S.B. After finding the word or phrase, “memorize it and slowly repeat it to yourself, allowing it to interact with your inner world of concerns, memories, and ideas.” The final two steps of lectio are to speak to God and then rest in God’s embrace. Check out the Irish Dominicans’ website (goodnews.ie/lectio.shtml) for an introduction to lectio divina.
BIG GOAL
Spiritual direction
This doesn’t necessarily sound like a difficult exercise since spiritual direction usually only happens once a month for an hour or so. But trouble finding the right spiritual director and keeping some semblance of continuity might stop you from moving ahead.
FIRST, TRY
The daily examen
Instead of just ditching this worthwhile goal, start on your own. Jesuits use the general examination of conscience—also called the examen—as part of their spiritual path.
The five basic steps as outlined by St. Ignatius of Loyola are: 1. Give thanks to God for favors received; 2. Ask for the grace to know your sins; 3. Examine how you have lived this day; 4. Ask forgiveness for any faults; 5. Resolve to amend with the grace of God.
Plan on taking 10 minutes at the end of each day to do the examen. The website jesuit.org says it doesn’t matter how long one takes, but that “the important thing is to open oneself to recognizing and responding to God’s movement in your heart.”
OR TRY
Journaling
Whether you prefer putting pen to paper or fingers to keyboard, journaling can help you focus on finding God in the everyday events of life. In Journaling as a Spiritual Practice (IVP), Helen Cepero assists both new and experienced journalers in paying attention to one’s own life through writing. Finding the right time, place, and manner of reflecting on the past, assessing the present, and looking forward to the future can help you work through struggles, find healing, and be mindful of God’s activity in and around you.
Heather Grennan Gary is a contributing editor at U.S. Catholic and writes from Goshen, Indiana. This article appeared in the January 2009 (Volume 74, Number 1; pages 18-22) issue of U.S. Catholic.
heartless detectives
By Don Vanden Burgt (not verified) on Sunday, January 9, 2011An article in the December issue referred to hard boiled detctives in novels. Perhaps the author hasn't read the following authors: William Kent Kruger (Cork Oconnor, Nevada Barr (ranger Anna Pigeon), or Henning Mankell (investigator Kurt Wallander). Very good reads.
Download your daily prayer !
By Anonymous (not verified) on Wednesday, January 5, 2011There is a great site that you can download daily prayer from with scripture reflections and music! I use it everyday, you can find it at http://www.pray-as-you-go.org
Exercises for the soul in the daily life
By Kris (not verified) on Tuesday, December 30, 2008I enjoyed this article of Heather Grennan Gary, and appreciate mostly the way the author presented various possibilities for “new year’s resolution” for the spiritual growth.
As another possibility to make a so called “19th annotation retreat” or “retreat in the everyday life” I recommend also the “Step by Step” self-guided online spiritual exercises available at the web site of “Our Lady of the Graces Hermitage” (http://www.geocities.com/ourladyofthegraces and click on “Step by Step” ) which can be done along the liturgical year (see the calendar for this http://www.geocities.com/ourladyofthegraces/Calendar09.htm )or can be taken up anytime. Help is available through the web site and dialog group or it can be acquired (downloaded or purchased) in book format.
This retreat is made first of all for married couples but also others can take it with spiritual profit. It consists of 32 steps and a final “exercise” that leads to the aftermath of the retreat.


