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Defending the family by attacking it

Wednesday, March 3, 2010
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Be glad you don't work for Catholic Charities in Washington. DC, because the battle over same-sex marriage just hit you in the pocketbook.

The DC law recognizing same-sex marriages requires anyone who has contracts with the district to provide equal spousal benefits to employees, regardless of the gender of the spouse. Catholic Charities says it cannot do so because following the law would violate church teaching, so it eliminated spousal benefits for new employees and current employees who have not elected to cover their spouses, effective yesterday.

So, Catholic Charities, for the sake of defending the institution of marriage, has made it harder on their own employees who are married, though CNS reports that fewer than 100 of its 850ish employees cover their spouses. Catholic Charities has also taken the cheap way out: As it hires new employees with this reduced benefits package, it stands to improve its bottom line. I'm sure Catholic Charities will pass those savings on to employees to supplement their meager salaries. Or maybe not.

This is just a wrongheaded decision, as well as unjust to workers. Situations like this call for creativity, not retrenchment. Like the Archdiocese of San Franscisco, DC Catholic Charities could have expanded coverage by allowing employees to cover another adult member of their household--a sibling, parent, etc.--instead of making it harder for families to get by. And that was under Archbishop Levada--who is now the head of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith in Rome!

This situation isn't going to go away either. DC won't be the last government body to recognize same-sex marriages or civil unions. Is our Catholic response going to be always to retrench rather than reach out? DC Charities' decision is a bad sign of things to come. It may on the surface appear to be a principled defense of church teaching about marriage, but in the eyes of many, including its employees, it could just as easily appear both cheap and petty.

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Toward a More Civil Discourse

The pendulum swings between extreme poles.

From one viewpoint it is easy to see the actions of the gay community across this country being an attack on marriage.

(Yes, I know the gay community frames it as an equal rights issue in which they are the victims, but that frame can be challenged.)

The response to attack is typically a retreat to a defensive posture, regrouping, and then counter attack.

Already the Manhattan Declaration is sounding the first battle cry of counter attack.

Anyone who understands conflict realizes there is potential for a huge backlash against the gay community, leading to a new round of eye-for-eye intolerance.

It is thus time for a higher level of discourse. There may be more rational minds on both sides that are able to articulate the conflict in a way that is conducive to a collaborative outcome. (Rights granted, marriage respected?)

When extremists (radical activists) charge the stage and grab the microphone, the result is usually suffering for innocents.

Will U.S. Catholic be a force for positive change, for reconciliation, or a force that supports radical disruption that inevitably ends in tragedy?

A failure of the imagination?

" Situations like this call for creativity, not retrenchment."

Bryan-you're making two assumptions
1. Catholic Charities in WDC wants to offer health insurance
2. That they want to cooperate with the reality of their situation, instead of making a big public relations affair.

As far as I can find out, neither of these assumptions is true. Seems to me, they want the issue, and want to look bold standing up for "traditional marriage". It's a cold political calculation. And, they must think the other guy will blink. Dumb as dirt.

The Retrenchment of Catholic Charities

I've just eliminated Catholic Charities from my future possibility as an employer.
Such a myopic, antiquated vision is definitely NOT connected to the "still small voice".
No doubt...there are modern day pharisees entrenched in the Roman Catholic Church and its doctrinal teachings. But, hey, that's NOT why I practice my faith and love my God and enjoy my community service. I am supportive of the spiritual ethic that "All Love Can Be".

The liberal faith

Gee, the government imposes its liberal views on the Church and Mr. Cones directs all of his criticism at the Church and none at the government taking away religious liberty.

...not a surprise: US Catholic is part of the fifth column.

[dave deleted]

I'm retiring from controversy.  Love the Lord, love one another, and listen to Eminem.

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My column for May!

That's what I'm going to write my column for May about! It used to be fun to be Catholic; now all we can talk about is gay marriage, abortion, the CCHD, and whether President Obama is the anti-Christ.

Take two Lenten fish frys, one Stations of the Cross, and call me in the morning. Only go to the parish where the fried fish is good and the Stations really penitential.

On Eminem, I'll take your word for it. He hurts my ears.

Bryan Cones

Thanks Bryan

Yes, fish sounds very good right now...and I haven't done the Stations in a long time so I will.

(Even better than fish is when the local Polish parish has its pierogi sale.)

It's rigatoni at the Italians

Just in time for St. Joseph. And we got dispensed in our diocese-FEAST!

By the way, good to see you're back in the fight!

[dave deleted]

No more controversy  (see above). 

Don't go Dave!

I enjoy (and sometimes endure) your comments-don't leave the fight! Keep up the controversy-it's what makes us different from the other animals.

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